Last week, a bridesmaid-to-be asked me about after parties, because she was considering hosting one in honor of the bride and groom. Awe, what a sweet bridesmaid! As these continue to be a growing trend, here are a few fast facts for you:
- After parties are just that, parties that take place after the reception is over. Often, time restraints and noise restrictions mean the wedding reception cannot go on indefinitely. But, that doesn't mean the celebration has to end.
- An after party can be informal (no invitations necessary) and tends to include the 'younger' crowd of close college friends / the wedding party / anyone who might what to stay out and celebrate.
- You can book a room at a local club or hotel, or it can be as casual as just showing up at a bar. Word of warning if you aren't going to make a reservation, check in advance to make sure they will have room for everyone / that there isn't another party scheduled at that location.
- It's a great time to kick back and catch up with old friends and people from out of town. Any past bride will tell you, the reception goes very quickly --too quickly to get to chit chat with everyone at length.
- People can change out of their more formal attire, or everyone can head straight from the wedding. I say, you really never get a chance to wear that dress again so just wear it. Plus, it's fun to be out on the town as bride and groom. You never know who will offer you a congratulatory freebie.
- Pretty much anything goes, but be clear about who is paying. Sometimes each guest is responsible for their own drinks and sometimes the bride or groom's parents might arrange to pick up the tab. Just be sure everyone knows what is going on in advance, because somebody has to pay the bill at the end of the night.
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