Writing your own vows doesn't mean you have to forgo traditional vows. It doesn't mean that you have to memorize something, come up with a poem, or have something deep to say. It does mean adding a personal touch to your ceremony. It's a chance for each of you to make a very personal pledge. You can write it out ahead of time and read it. There is nothing wrong with that. You can say what is on your heart in that very moment. Either way, I think it is something to really consider.
Often, there is so much attention put on the reception when the ceremony is the whole reason for the day. Without it, you wouldn't be married. So don't over think it, but consider saying a few of your own words on your wedding day.
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